|Posted on 23 May, 2019 at 10:25|
As we all know Anxiety can be debilitating. But have you ever wondered why is it that the only animals that suffer from anxiety are animals that spend long periods of time with humans?
Animals are instinctual. Something happens and they react instinctually without thinking! Humans are different. Humans have a small time gap between what’s happened and how they react. This gap is what makes us special. This gap allows us an opportunity to rationalise what’s just h...Read Full Post »
|Posted on 23 May, 2019 at 3:45|
A common question i get asked is "How do i know whether i'm getting Good Guidance from Spirit World or whether i'm getting bad Guidance?"
Here are some ways to differentiate between Good or False Guidance.
- Feels negative, cold or prickly
- Fear based
- Can feel too far away like an unreacheable goal
- Guilt based eg: “Hurry up or you’ll miss out you idiot”
- Focuses on past hur...Read Full Post »
|Posted on 29 March, 2019 at 23:00|
Most of you have heard me talk a lot about the Ego appointing itself as the Governor of our physical experience. For those who haven’t read any of previous material I’ll briefly summarise.
The Ego is the most primitive part of our brain, the reptilian part. It’s job is to create predicable patterns so that we can simply go into autopilot and not have to think about breathing, walking, talking etc.... however it’s not just the physi...Read Full Post »
|Posted on 14 March, 2019 at 19:50|
This is a more common question than you think. I get told often “A psychic once told me I’m a healer, so should I quit my day job to become a healer?” Opening up our own Healing business seems to be the New Age thing to do. However, the question is can you provide healing to humanity simply by doing your regular everyday job?
Say for example your primary purpose is to nurture and support others. You may not necessarily need to quit your job and become a Nu...Read Full Post »
|Posted on 23 January, 2019 at 9:00|
It’s a term often used within the Spiritual community to describe when someone is going through a period of transformation. Like the Caterpillar that turns into the chrysalis not knowing whether it will be able to come out on the other side a Butterfly. The caterpillar literally is faced with the risk and fear of death in order to transform into a butterfly.
This often happens when someone has had an initial trigger such as a mystical experience, traumatic ...Read Full Post »
|Posted on 2 December, 2018 at 20:35|
As Women we often seem to question our spirituality and ability to be enlightened. Continually wondering to ourselves “Am I doing it right, am I getting it right?, maybe I need to study more.” In most cases I can diagnose the problem immediately because it’s very often due to hormones. Let me explain.
Women from a young age, and this is a generalization but, Women dream about their Wedding day, who they will marry and how many children they’re going ...Read Full Post »
|Posted on 18 November, 2018 at 20:15|
As a young child being raised in Catholic schools it used to shock me how robotic people can be. I would sit at the back of the church watching people follow orders for an hour. Stand up. Sit down. Kneel down. I didn’t understand how this whole series of things made me a better person? And what if on the other part of the world people didn’t know this robotic sequence would they have any hope of being saved? Yes from a young age I questioned everything.
As time h...Read Full Post »
|Posted on 8 November, 2018 at 4:20|
I grew up around the belief that parents shouldn’t show their emotions in front of their Children. Don’t argue in front of children, don’t cry or show vulnerability in front of children, keep it together at all times. Discussions that weren’t child appropriate were supposed to be done away from the children.
These days, parents are expressing more and more in front of their children. They swear and scream, fight with their partner or yell at the othe...Read Full Post »
|Posted on 3 November, 2018 at 3:30|
Sadly, most people don’t understand how Karma works and use it to explain why bad things happen to themselves or others. In reality Karma is so much more complex than this and it can actually be more liberating than you think.
No matter what you are doing every minute of the day you are making choices, be it to sit on the couch, eat a certain food, ignore someone, overwork, everything you do. There is an energy behind every choice you make. For example imagine a frien...Read Full Post »
|Posted on 16 September, 2018 at 20:35|
Do you sometimes wonder why people around you seem to be getting everything they want and for some reason you just can’t get unstuck from where you are now? Here’s what’s happening.
You get inspired to do something then when the opportunity comes you try it out but it seems too hard, you change your mind, become unsure whether it’s what you really wanted or you choose the fake it till you make it approach. The problem is you’re not a vibrational...Read Full Post »
|Posted on 13 September, 2018 at 23:05|
The spiritual communities always talk about the Law of Attraction and manifesting but in reality for the average person not into all this woo woo stuff it’s all non-sense. So here’s a way of explaining how it all works in simple layman’s terms.
Imagine you’re at a restaurant looking at the Menu options. You look at the Salads and think “Do I want a salad?” then your emotional body remembers the taste, texture and feeling (based...Read Full Post »
|Posted on 9 September, 2018 at 4:20|
One morning my 7 year old woke up and said to me that she had a dream that she was REAL. Her exact words were “Mum I dreamt that I was really real, like I could touch things and feel things!” This immediately brought to my awareness what happens when consciousness kicks in for a child. Like Pinocchio turning into a real boy and realizing that he was a real boy! These days it’s fashion to talk about awareness and being Conscious of self! But in practical terms what does this ...Read Full Post »
|Posted on 2 September, 2018 at 18:45|
We are a social species designed to function as a whole, there must be order within the chaos. Just look at the Cars on the road are organized and obeying the road rules or the lines at the bank or shopping center. We are moving towards a Hive mind like Bees and Ants functioning as a whole for a common purpose.
Since young we were taught to conform. Suppress our urg...Read Full Post »
|Posted on 2 September, 2018 at 2:40|
Do these kind of battles happen in your mind daily?
Me: Maybe i should lose weight…
Ego: But Why? That's too hard and requires so much effort and changes
Me: Maybe i should express myself more
Ego: Now why would you go and do a stupid thing like that? What will people think?
Me: I need some more independence and me time
Ego: I'll tell your Husband!!
Me: I really should get the kids doing more for themselves
Ego:...Read Full Post »
|Posted on 28 July, 2018 at 1:45|
I was Spray tanning at a Salon one evening and knowing me as one not to pass up an opportunity to chat to someone on my break, I approached a client whom was getting her hair done. I took the chance to tell her about my first book “How do I know when I’m ready to have kids?” after some chit chat the lady said “and what makes you qualified to write about this subject?” in a very blunt way. Every part of my being felt like saying “All my experience in life an...Read Full Post »
|Posted on 20 July, 2018 at 9:10|
Having done a lot of Spray Tanning, I once had a lady come in once that just blew me away. She was a curvy lady but boy was her charisma more curvy. Her energy was so beautiful it’s hard to put into words how she lit up the room with her smile. She said to me “I’m big, fat and beautiful and I don’t care what you think you still have to spray tan my big hairy Poonani!” She laughed and made me laugh along with her! Her confidence and acceptance of herself radiated ...Read Full Post »
|Posted on 20 July, 2018 at 8:00|
Honestly, I’m not sure I remember what happened that led me to lose my temper with my three-year-old. I do remember however the anger and feeling of being disrespected coming over me and before I had time to calm down I slapped her. Her eyes whirled up with tears. This instantly sent me into a spiral of feeling guilt and shame. I put my hands to my face in disbelief thinking What am I doing?! Is this the kind of mother I’ve become? As I cleaned her up I began to sob murmouring ...Read Full Post »